Confidence and self-help skills are two of the most important things
children develop during their kindergarten years. At this age, children are
learning not only letters and numbers but also how to take care of themselves
and feel proud of their abilities. Confidence grows when children feel safe,
supported, and encouraged. A confident child is willing to try new things, speak
up in class and keep going even when something is difficult. Parents and
teachers can help by giving positive praise, celebrating small successes and
showing patience when mistakes happen. For example, if your child tries to zip
up their jacket and struggles, instead of jumping in right away, you might say,
“You’re doing a great job trying. Let’s see if you can get it.” This gives them
the courage to keep practicing.
Self-help skills are the everyday tasks that make children more independent.
These include getting dressed, washing hands, putting away toys and managing
their school supplies. These tasks may seem small to adults but to children, they
are big steps toward independence. When children learn to do things by
themselves, they feel proud and capable.
Confidence and self-help go hand in hand. Each time a child successfully
completes a task—whether tying shoelaces or carrying their school bag—they
gain confidence. The more confident they feel, the more willing they are to try
new challenges. This cycle builds independence and a strong sense of self-
worth.
Parents can support this growth at home by allowing children to practice daily
routines, offering encouragement and showing patience. Progress takes time, by
giving children opportunities to try, we help them believe in themselves and
become more independent learners.
